
There are daily experiences which bring to light the impressions that black and white people have of each other. Having had three experiences within the past two hours, I am putting off cooking dinner (no small sacrifice) in order to give my impressions of them.
The most recent occurred outside my hut only 3 minutes ago. I approached three men who I speak and have a laugh with daily. One showed me a picture and said ‘Do you know me when you see me?’ It was a picture of his good friend who was standing there with us; he was wearing a great 70s style dress shirt. I recognized quickly who the picture was of and complimented the shirt, which was awesome. The first man quickly re-checked that I knew who the photo is of.
It is a small event but I believe it represents a belief I have read about and experienced that white people have great difficulty and may even be unable to tell black people apart. I am lucky I took the time to look at the face in the photo or I may have fallen prey to this small joke. There was no malice, this man was simply playing out this conception.
2 minutes before that, speaking to another friend. (Notice that I know few names well, they are harder to pronounce and learn. I know many people casually). I told him how I like to compare the Botswana/South Africa dynamic to Canada/US. I think there are many parallels with population, cultural influence, international recognition and the friendly, friendly people. His addition was that Batswana are nicer to white people. It was candid and this sort of dialogue occurs often and is open. I am getting used to it such that I feel little remorse writing openly about it. How this may be received in Canada I am not stopping a good rant to censor.
His point about Botswana/South Africa relates to an experience just 2 hours before.
The conversation was with a white South African who I had a beer with. He spoke of ‘coloured’ people, the laziness of his staff and other troubles with the country. I can’t say he was racist, though his demeanor on some subjects was a bit off putting. I don’t know the dialogue, tone or language South Africans normally use and can’t tell if he was out of the ordinary. It is another perspective in a very different situation than I am use to.
I have very little to conclude, only a great deal to observe and experience. Probably the best way to travel.
Interesting fact: The Botswana flag, blue, black and white. Is meant to represent the sky above, racial harmony in the country and the importance of water below.
